Business strategy and founder lessons

@extraordinarywithchirag

A tough, perfectionist luxury-marketing boss (Sulakshna Pathak, BMW Group India / MINI India) shattered his confidence for six months but taught him two lessons that changed his career: "act like someone who belongs here" and, with senior stakeholders, be concise and to the point and let them ask for more.

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What they said

Intro: the boss is Sulakshna Pathak. Text overlay: "She was my boss from Jul 2016 - Apr 2018".
Two things about her: (1) hardly anybody in India better in luxury marketing (career snapshot card: BMW Group India 17 yrs 7 mos; Director MINI India Jul 2016-Mar 2024; Head Customer Relations, Future Retail at BMW Mar 2012-Jun 2016; General Manager Marketing Sep 2006-Feb 2012; Marketing Head Oriflame India (natural Swedish cosmetics) Apr 2005-Aug 2006; Brand Manager Moet Hennessy India Mar 2001-Apr 2005); (2) she has a temper, layered with perfectionism; he describes himself as a "total jugadu" (improviser). Overlay "Not anymore.... Errrr Sorry Boss!" as a joke.
First six months (overlay "Gaali & Dant Period Jul 2016 to Dec 2016"): mostly scoldings; his confidence shattered. "I am good with people but I don't have a read on her, I don't know how to talk to her, I'm fumbling." Overlays: "Because of a HUGE gap in our working style, I was STRUGGLING!!"; "Long Story Short! She made me nervous and I did not know how to manage her"; "For the FIRST time in my life, I felt I was going to get FIRED!"; "MY LAST RESORT was to have a 'clear the air' conversation with her!"
The conversation: he blocked time, sat her down and said "I can't work like this, I'm scared you will fire me because I am struggling. What am I missing? How can I improve?"
Her answer (lesson 1): "Chirag, we are BMW. We are the standard. You need to shape up and stop acting like someone who is extremely pleased and happy to be here, and start acting like someone who belongs here." (overlay "GOOSEBUMPS!!", "THANK GOD! Common sense prevailed!", "I prayed to every god there is before saying this...").
Lesson 2 (about communication): "You give me way too much information than is required. Just get to the point quickly and tell me exactly where we are with things and what is happening. I don't need all these backstories." Overlay: "Because I used to be nervous around her I was always over explaining myself & lacked clarity...". Takeaway text: "When you interact with 'Senior Stakeholders' attention & time matter! Be strategic!! Being good at what you do is the bare minimum expectation!! Add this to your skillset to level up!" He says: with senior stakeholders it is a different ball game; be short, concise, to the point; they will ask for more when they need it. "That was the biggest game changer."
She gave honest feedback "not the way I wanted it, but still feedback".
Outcome: he ended up presenting to the President (of the group) and to different markets, representing the Indian market, "a huge moment of pride". Evidence shown: a reference letter on MINI letterhead (dated April 19, 2018) and a WhatsApp message from her: "Thanks Chirag. Wish u were here. I really needed u this year. Never worked with someone like u before. You have the most amazing attitude and way with people. Wish u the best of everything in life. U really deserve it" with his reply "Hey boss thanks so much... somehow I needed this today. Have learnt a lot from you and you gave me so many opportunities I couldn't have let you down. I miss all the madness."
Closing: "I owe a huge part of who I am, what I do and the success that I enjoy to you. Thank you for being such an amazing mentor. Happy Teacher's Day." (overlay: "Thank you for being my mentor for life! I still call you for guidance and will continue doing so..").
Caption: "The boss who I thought was Toxic!! Ended up changing my career forever!! Happy Teachers Day to my ex-boss and life long mentor!" tags her (@sulakshna_pathak) and hashtags #becomingextraordinary #teachersday #mentor #boss #career.

Try this

Everyone with senior stakeholders: Lead with where things stand, then the blocker, then your ask. Skip the backstory and let them ask for more. This was the biggest career lesson in the story.
Agencies and freelancers: Teach juniors and account managers a three-line client update: status, blockers, decision needed. Use it for brand-side executives who have little time.
Founders pitching bigger brands: Act like someone who belongs in the room. Present as the standard, not as someone grateful to be there.
Anyone struggling with a hard manager or client: Block time for a direct "clear the air" talk. Say what you are struggling with and ask "What am I missing? How can I improve?"
Creators: Copy the structure for a founder story: a gesture hook, the conflict, one turning-point line, a takeaway card, proof screenshots and a thank-you tag. Tagging the person drives reach, but check they are happy to be named.

Links

No tools or links. Handles: @sulakshna_pathak (tagged, mentor), @becoming_extraordinary (usertag, the creator's brand "Becoming Extraordinary"). Creator now works as a Career Coach (stated in a comment reply: "I don't work in India anymore. I now work as a Career Coach... networking... is like a cheat code").
Props: RODE-branded mic cover held in hand; LinkedIn-style career snapshot graphic.

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